Naomi Rockler, a women’s studies scholar, writes that the movie uses “strategic ambiguity,” allowing most viewers to watch the movie through the lens of our culture’s dominant ideology-heterosexuality. #Unsimulated gay sex scenes from mainstream movies movie# Rockler says a straight world understands lesbianism as a sexual behavior, rather than an emotional one, giving the viewer an option to bypass the queerness of their relationship. When Alex’s mother saw the movie, she argued with her that it represented a friendship: “The movie’s not gay,” she told Alex. “Don’t ruin it.”īut Flagg, who had relationships with women throughout her life, wrote a very gay book- Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe- in which Idgie and Ruth’s relationship is unambiguously queer.